We all live our lives on the internet, so learning the basics about someone is pretty easy: all you need to do is search them up on Google or Tinder or any of the dozens of other websites that rule our lives. Getting to know someone beyond what their social media profiles advertise can be a bit tricky, so we’ve gathered a few good questions to ask your boyfriend to help you get to know him better.
10 Good Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend to Get to Know Him Better
1.Who is your hero? The people that a person holds in high esteem can say a lot about them. If your boyfriend’s hero is Adolf Hitler, it might be time to find a new boyfriend. Or run screaming in the other direction.
2.What are you afraid of? A person’s greatest fear can tell you a lot about them. Don’t take their fear at face value though, because there is often a deeper meaning to those fears.
3.Who is your favorite author? Reading is a great gift. If your boyfriend says they don’t have a favorite author, or they don’t read, it may be time to find a better significant other. John Waters, in his vulgar way, said it best: “If you go home with someone and they don’t have books, don’t f*** them.”
4.What chore would you rather do? You really don’t want to tie yourself down to someone who wants you to be a housewife, and refuses to do any chores. Any relationship should be a partnership, and that includes care of the house.
5.How many pillows do you sleep with? If he sleeps with a mountain of pillows, you may find it hard to get comfortable on his bed, and vise versa if you only sleep with one pillow under your head.
6.What is one thing you couldn’t go a day without? This doesn’t include things necessary for survival like food, water, shelter, etc. What one thing could he not get through the day without having?
7.Is your glass half-empty or half-full? The classic question that separates optimists from pessimists. You may also be able to tell if your boyfriend is a realist, or a gamer from this same question!
8.Do you love or hate roller coasters? Knowing this little tidbit of information is very helpful when planning outings for you and your boyfriend. You don’t want to go to a theme park if they’re terrified of roller coasters!
9.What is your favorite fast food chain? Fast food is awful for you, but it can be fun to go buy a kid’s meal from your boyfriend’s favorite fast food restaurant as a treat. Just don’t eat nothing but fast food!
1.Do you collect anything? Collecting things is a great hobby. It’s good to know if your boyfriend is going to spend all his money on his collectables instead of on you though!
This is just a small sample of possible questions you could ask to help you get to know your boyfriend better. Just spark up a conversation! You’ll be surprised at what you might learn.